You might not like how this sounds, but after breaking up with your boyfriend, you should not spend your time calling or communicating with him in any way. I know how much you want to keep your guy close to you right now, but doing anything like that now is not the best idea.
Besides, you will not be able to fix things if you don’t take time to analyze and grow from your mistakes. So, just take it easy and give your man some time to think about things too. This is what you call taking a leap of faith.
If you are serious about making your guy want you back. Ask yourself first why is it that you still want to be with your ex again. Did he treat you well when you were still together? Is he worth the fight? If your answer to these questions is “yes”, then what you need is a concrete and realistic plan. To be able to do this, you need to have a clear mind and make yourself emotionally stable.
Start by hanging out with your girl friends! Share your pain with them. They will help make you feel better and bring out the sunny side of you again. Eventually, you will find yourself giggling with them again.
Then, reconnect with your family. This will remind you of how much you are still loved by so many people.
Pamper yourself, take a short vacation, or get a simple makeover. Basically, do the things that you like and enjoy. It is good to be seen by some common friends and even by your ex himself that you are actually having fun and handling the situation just fine.
Soon enough, he will realize how much he misses you and how much he wants to be back with you. But if he’s the shy type, he might not tell you this right away. So, it would also be great if you could initiate a simple conversation through a phone call. Or better yet, ask him out over coffee just to catch up a bit. If he says yes, then that is a sign that you have still got a special place in his heart.
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Pat
