A bad break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend can leave you feeling totally shattered inside. Most of the time, however, we realize that we have made the wrong decision in asking or agreeing on the separation. Anyway, you don’t have to frustrate over getting your ex back because here are the steps on how to reconcile with someone after a break up.
For the first step, you need to get a hold of yourself. Don’t lose your head and practice self-control. Refrain from getting in contact with your ex in any way. This means, you should not give him any calls, text messages, emails, voice mails, and other forms of communications for now. You do not want to be perceived as needy, desperate, and immature because these things will only push your ex further out of reach. If you do bump into him/her, just keep a positive demeanour by smiling and saying hi.
Second, you need to make yourself look physically attractive and desirable to your ex. This may include getting a new haircut, changing your wardrobe, and start going to the gym to get in shape. You see, this is just like starting from scratch again. You need to make a good impression, and the first thing that your ex will notice about you is your appearance. So, surprise him or her with your yumminess the next time you bump into each other!
Third, engage yourself into activities that will help you recover from the breakup. Start new or old hobbies and basically enjoy yourself. Reconnect with family and friends. They will comfort you enough and help bring out the sunny side of you back.
Lastly, you and your ex will reach a point wherein you will miss each other. Once the tension between you has faded, try to break the ice by asking him/her out over coffee just to catch up, but only if he/she wants to. Don’t put too much pressure on your ex. If he/she says yes, you can take it as a sign that he/she is still interested.
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Pat 
Here’s a great story from Jemma Briland which will provide some great “ex back advice”. When you read this you will notice she is applying one of the key rules to getting your ex back.