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Get your man to come back to you willingly

Thursday, August 19th, 2010

No matter how much you want to get your guy back, don’t let your heart rule your head. To get your ex man to come back to you willingly, you have to get a hold of yourself and keep yourself emotionally intact.

It is okay to go through a grieving stage. Cry it all out, scream, and rant for all you want. Just make sure that you have people around you who truly care, like your family and close friends.
To achieve this, you need to give yourself the chance to recuperate from the break up. The separation surely caused you certain damages that make you feel shattered and broken inside. Your man needs some time for himself to realize things, too. When you both finally become emotionally ready, chances are both of you will be willing to revive the relationship.

By that time, you should be able to identify your mistakes. Show your ex how much you regret committing those and how much you have learned and grown from them. Making sacrifices and certain adjustments are the best ways to prove to your ex how important he/she is and how serious you are about making things better the second time around.

Now, recall the things your ex loved in you initially. Focus on those qualities and bring them out. The important thing is to be able to project yourself in a positive, cheerful, and attractive way. Even the tiniest things count. Consider these as your weapons in this battle, so don’t take this lightly.

By reminding your ex of the kind of person that he/she fell head over heels for, it wouldn’t be so hard for you to convince him/her to get back together eventually.

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Winning Your Ex Back

Monday, August 9th, 2010

It’s not all about your partner. You also play a part in the relationship. If you want to be able to bring your ex back into your life, you really need to fix yourself. To be able to put the broken pieces of you back into a whole, prioritize your own needs for now. Are there things that you’ve always wanted to do even without having your ex around? This is the best time to engage in activities that will keep your mind busy and help you bring your natural self back.

It is important that you try your best to live a normal life after the break up and resist unhelpful thoughts that are self-destructive like locking yourself up in your room for days, staying in the house for too long, not eating well, etc. You may do this for a while, but it has got to stop at some point.

After you cry yourself dry, make sure your ex sees you living a life full of excitement and passion and remind him/her about what made him/her fall in love with you the first place. So start by reconnecting with your family. They are the people who will give you enough comfort for now, and remind you about how still well-loved you are by others. Then, find old friends, start making new friends, and socialize. Again, do not isolate yourself. Interacting with other people is healthy. It will help you recover from the break up much faster.

Most importantly, you have to find yourself again. So take some time to relax, unwind, and have fun. Take a nice week-long vacation or treat yourself to a soothing and pampering massage. Either way, you need to feel special again.

After doing all these, you will find a great difference with the way you feel and perceive things. It will be much easier for you to approach your ex with confidence and maturity. Your mind will be clear enough for you to execute your plans smoothly and error-free. This will help you convince your ex easily about starting anew.

Rootin for ya,

Pat 

 

 

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The Right Way to Apologize to Win Back Your Ex

Saturday, August 7th, 2010

Getting back with your ex is a make or break situation. Many couples do manage to put their relationships back together, while others don’t. You know why? It usually depends on the way you apologize. Learn these tips on how to apologize the right way and get your ex back soon.

First, take some time to realize the things that you have done wrong in the relationship. Were there certain things you did or did not do that might have hurt your partner? If so, learn to swallow your pride and admit that you did wrong. You need to be sincere on this one. Prove that you are genuine with your apology by improving yourself in the areas that you have failed in. Show your ex how much you are willing to change for the better.
 

Second, it is important that you let your partner know why you are apologizing. Show him/her that you are not only admitting to your faults, but you also understand the reason behind your remorse. This will prove how much his/her feelings are important to you because you have spent some decent time to think things through.
 

Third, after making it clear that you fully understand and accept your mistakes, explain to your ex that the problems you have encountered before will not surface again. But these are just mere words. They are still not enough to convince someone your sincerity. So, start by walking the walk and wrap things up by coming up with a good plan on how to avoid committing the same mistakes again when you are finally given a second chance of a relationship by your ex. This will further prove that you are serious in fixing and making things better this time around.

Rootin for ya,

Pat 

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How to Make a Guy Miss You and Want You Back

Friday, August 6th, 2010

So how have you been after breaking up with your ex boyfriend? You have been pretty bummed about it huh? Well, if you have the strongest desire to get back together, then read on to discover how to revive your relationship.

There is no need to panic. There’s lots of help available. Add your email to the right of the page and we‘ll send yo everything you need. Try some sleek and smooth ways to make your ex want you back.

First, you have to pull yourself together. No one wants a person who is wasted, broken, and depressed all the time. That is not attractive at all, especially to women. Now, if you truly want your guy to look at you with so much admiration again, the best way to go about it is to regain confidence, become cheerful, laugh, be silly, learn to enjoy life again, and basically have fun.

Any female who exudes a positive demeanour can easily become a guy magnet. This can be hard at first, but by staying strong together with the help of your family and friends, you can gradually live life normally again.

Second, you cannot afford any distractions, and your ex is not an exception. In fact, he can be the greatest distraction right now. He might intrude into your mind and emotions often. That’s just normal. But no matter how tempting, don’t bombard him with a series of calls, text messages, emails, voice mails, etc. This will only make you seem desperate, needy, and pathetic, which are a set of unattractive behaviours.
 

Third, prove to your guy that you are worth being with, instead. Remind him of how beautiful you are as a person inside and out. Try to fix yourself by getting a mini make over. Say, a new hair cut, some new and crisp clothes, and a toned body from the gym. Little positive things like changes in your appearance will tell him that you have been dealing with the situation well enough. In fact, it would be better if you’d be seen out with your friends, laughing, and having fun. This will make him miss you and want to be with you even more.


It’s all possible, just allow yourself to believe.

Rootin’ for ya,

Pat 

 

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How to Convince Your Ex to Take You Back

Thursday, August 5th, 2010

If you have invested a lot of time and effort into your relationship, then you must be thinking about getting him/her back by now. This is normal, we all do it. But do you really want them back? If so, then read on as we show you how to convince an ex to take you back

Okay so you’ve made a mistake and you already regret your decision to finish the relationship. Don’t linger on this too much. Rather, focus on more important things, like how to make yourself attractive and desirable to your ex again.

I know that it sounds ironic, but this will require some time apart from him/her as the break up might have left a bad taste in your ex’s mouth and he/she might still be pretty mad at you. This is not the best time to insist on them taking you back.
Don’t beg and plead. This will only make you look desperate. You might win your ex’s sympathy by doing so, but not his/her love. Besides, you will not be able to fix things this way. If your ex-partner decides to take you back, the old problems that you have encountered before will most likely resurface.

Instead, take this time apart as an opportunity to enjoy your time alone. Restart old hobbies, reconnect with family and friends, and meet new people. Don’t isolate yourself because socializing will help you recover from the break up much faster.

Also consider how your ex feels. He/she is hurting just as much as you do. Give your ex some room to calm down and recuperate as well. Once you know that you are emotionally stable and the tension between you two have already subsided, that’s the time when you can start getting in touch with each other again to discuss deeper matters about your relationship.


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Pat

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