You don’t know how to win your ex back after a bad break up? All you really need to do is to remind your ex that life is so much better with you in it. This may require some adjustments of your behaviour, habits, and appearance.
First, concentrate on making yourself look good on the outside. Men initially get attracted on the appearance before anything else. Use your knowledge about your ex to your advantage. You know what he/she likes. Get a simple makeover, go shopping to change your wardrobe, or go to the gym to shape up. While you go about this, heal yourself inside simultaneously. This will help you prepare for the next step.
Looking good will make you feel a million times better inside.
Go out and reconnect with your close friends or family. Try to look your best, but at the same time, wear your confidence. Get yourself ready to face your ex because you don’t know when you will accidentally run into him/her. Your ultimate goal is to make yourself emotionally ready and level-headed.
When you finally know that you are ready to face your ex again, try to initiate contact. Surprise your ex with all the improvement that you have made with yourself.
If your ex is still into you, there will come a time that he/she will miss you so bad and crave for your attention that he/she might get in touch with you first. If this happens, just keep your composure. Don’t be easy-to-get. But at the same time, let your ex know that you are still interested in getting back together subtly.
Here to help,
Pat 
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